Hello to all of my friends!
I want to let you all know that even though times are tough for all of us, that we all have the capacity within us to still overcome and be successful. All of you know that I was once paralyzed from the neck down, and was told that spending my life in a wheel chair was a real likelihood. But with opportunity, one can accomplish the near improbable. My spinal cord gave me an opportunity to have a recovery that most Neurologist's just shake their head at in disbelief. But it wasn't just the opportunity, it was also my desire, effort, my focus and my belief that propelled my recovery. Now imagine the opportunity before you, whether it's that promotion, to start a new business, to grow your business, to be a better person, to lose weight, to be lower your golf handicap, etc. Now matter what it is, it can be done.
The point of this newsletter is; that you too can accomplish whatever it is you set out to do, as long as you have that opportunity. So many people in our country settle for mediocrity. Don't let that be you!
I have proven myself with my recovery over my spinal cord injury, but there is more to life than just that. Yet what I learned about myself all came from that accomplishment.
Five years ago I set a goal to be a single digit handicap golfer. That's an individual that shoots scores of high 70's to low 80's consistently. To do this, I had to overcome many obstacles. The biggest obstacle was the fact that I am still partially paralyzed in my upper extremities. For a business that would be like having 40% of your work force gone, and yet you still want to grow your business by 40% or more. This would pose a problem if you allowed it to. But you have to work with what you've got. No excuses. So I set the goal to be a single digit handicap golfer, and I wanted to reach that goal in 3 years, and drop my handicap from 17.6 to at least 9.9.
The beauty of golf is that it teaches you a great deal about life and even business. In golf, you have to learn to be tremendously focused on every thing you do. You also need to work extremely hard to improve your game. It won't happen just because you want it to. You have to be able to learn from your mistakes, and then be able to incorporate that lesson, so you don't do it the next time.
By the year 2009, my handicap had gone from a 17.6 all the way down to an 8.7. I had accomplished the goal I set for myself. It took everything I had ever learned from my injury to achieve that goal. There were so many times while on the course where I would hit a terrible shot, or shoot a very high score and my frustration levels were through the roof. Yet I knew that it wasn't going to be easy, anything worth accomplishing never is easy. If I can accomplish that goal, than I know for a fact that you too can accomplish your goals.
Never give up, never quit trying, Thomas Edison once said; "That are greatest weakness lies in giving up, and the best way to succeed is to always try just one more time."
Good luck with your goals. I know that you all will accomplish them if you really are prepared to do what it takes.
Next post I will talk more about goals. Why you need them, why you must write them down!!
Take care,
Joe Rhea